Does the problem have a name and passport or is it an actual issue
Dembo
| my fault | someone elses fault | |
|---|---|---|
| during | angry, confused, know where to look | angry, confused, do not know where to look |
| immediate aftermath | laughing at my own stupidity | relief that i am not stupid, angry |
| long term aftermath | never make that mistake again | paranoia that others are stupid |